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Top Ten Ways to Know You’re In Love

1. You’re in love if you think about them all of the time.

Well yah, I didn’t say that everything on this list would be profound or anything. This one is a no-brainer. If you love someone, they’re going to be in your thoughts all the time. In fact, you won’t be able to get them out of your head. Look at the rest of the indicators before coming to a conclusion, though, because this one could also mean that you’re just plain nuts.

2. You’re in love if everything reminds you of them.

Someone asks you to pass the ketchup and it reminds you of them. A flock of geese fly overhead and it reminds you of them. You get the picture. Oh, and for some reason, when you’re in love it seems like every new person you meet or see on TV or hear a story about has the same name as the person you’re in love with. I don’t know why that is, it just happens.

3. You’re in love if you care more about their safety and happiness than you do about your own.

For some weird and inexplicable reason, the whole “looking out for number one” thing you’ve been doing your whole life desolves away and gets replaced by an overwhelming urge to make sure that special person is as safe, comfortable and happy as possible. No, I’m serious. This totally because your number one priority. It’s kind of like getting super powers, in a way; you’d be amazed at what little-old-you is capable of when you’re trying to protect or provide for the one you love.

4. You’re in love if you start caring more about your own appearance.

Suddenly, without warning, you find yourself wanting to actually iron the wrinkled jeans that have been sitting in the dryer for the last three days before you wear them. If you’re about to see that person who you can’t get out of your mind, there suddenly seems to be a whole lot of reflective surfaces around to check yourself out in.

5. You’re in love if you’re actually interested in knowing more about them.

You can forget about the days when you went home from a date remembering absolutely nothing about the interests, career and dreams of the person you went out with. Finding out all about this fantastic person is your new favorite thing to do. If you could find a book detailing every minute detail of their life, you wouldn’t sleep or eat until you read every last paragraph.

6. You’re in love if you want to impress them.

You’ve always tried to be modest, but suddenly you feel like you’re a politician fighting to win the most important election ever in the history of the universe. You make sure that the faded newspaper article about you winning your third-grade spelling bee is left nonchalantly on the coffeetable when they come to visit. And you keep them as far as possible from that great aunt who loves to tell all of the embarrassing stories about you.

7. You’re in love if you aren’t as tight with your money or time anymore.

There was a time when the idea of shelling out your hard-earned money to buy someone dinner or a gift would have horrified you. Sure, you would buy an occasional round for your friends or bring grandma flowers on her birthday, but spending any more money than absolutely necessary just wasn’t going to happen. But now, no price seems too high as long as it makes that special someone happy.

8. You’re in love if hanging out with your friends just isn’t as appealing any more.

Remember when you and your friends made fun of the former buddy who ditched your gang to hang out with their new boyfriend or girlfriend? And when the thought of abandoning your friends to spend time with a member of the opposite sex seemed like sacrilege? Well you can try to deny it all you want, but you’re finding yourself constantly thinking about being with that special someone … even when you’re surrounded by your buddies!

9. You’re in love if commitment is actually starting to sound like something you could stand.

What, you commit to something that requires you to be faithful and responsible? Oh, the horror! What strange, evil spell has been cast upon you that would actually make you excited about a long-term relationship or even marriage with someone? Did someone slip something into your drink? Are you going insane? No. You’re probably in love, knucklehead.

10. You’re in love if you just aren’t noticing other members of the opposite sex.

Oh, the people you used to stare at are still there … you just aren’t noticing them anymore. For some bizarre reason, that special someone has suddenly become infinitely more attractive to you than any other person on the face of the planet. People who you used to think were good-looking suddenly pale in comparison to the one you’ve found yourself falling in love with.

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I Love You More

May 2, 2008 - 13:16 — sandeep

“I LOVE YOU MORE”

I love you more
than the stars are bright,
the sun is hot,
or the moon is high….

I love you more
than the mountain peaks,
the snow is white,
or the valley is deep…

I love you more
than the ocean is blue,
the waves lap the shores,
or the beach is long…

I love you more
than the grass is green,
the trees are tall,
or the sky is blue…

I love you more
than all of nature’s beauty…
Because my love surpasses
all time and place…

And because of this…
~I love you more~….

A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words……………

— UNKNOWN

In times of despair, Lord help me see that friends and family, and change and healing are in site

— Moment of Quiet Reflection
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Love is Life

I think love is life, we all should fall in love at least once a life, so we understand the true meaning of life. Love truly explore the life & mean to feel the soul.

Missing you…quotes…

November 5, 2007 - 11:56 — rekha

When I miss you, sometimes I listen to music or look at pictures of you, not to remind me of you but to make me feel as if I’m with you. It makes me forget the distance and capture you.

If you think missing me is hard, you should try missing you

A hug for you means I need you. A kiss for you means I love you. A call for you means I’m missing you.

I miss the way you used to hug me, I miss the way you used to kiss my lips, but most of all I miss the way you held me and my heart. I miss you…

You are the sun in my day, the wind in my sky, the waves in my ocean and the beat in my heart… I Miss You…

I am waiting and hoping and wishing for the time, when we can be together again! I Miss You!

When you miss me just look up to the night sky and remember, I’m like a star; sometimes you can’t see me, but I’m always there.

I think of you with every waking moment of my life and dream of you with every dream that I have; I miss you.

Why Women Cry

March 8, 2008 - 01:29 — sandeep

Why Women Cry
Watch her eyes

A little boy asked his mother, ‘Why are you crying?’ ‘Because I’m a woman,’ she told him.

‘I don’t understand,’ he said. His Mom just hugged him and said, ‘And you never will.’

Later the little boy asked his father, ‘Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?’

‘All women cry for no reason,’ was all his dad could say.

The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry..

Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone, he asked, ‘God, why do women cry so easily?’

God said

‘When I made the woman she had to be special.

I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world,yet gentle enough to give comfort.

I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.

I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.

I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly.

I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.

I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.

And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed.’

‘You see my son,’ said God, ‘the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides.’

What do women really want? May 15, 2008 - 08:20 — sandeep

This is very interesting……….(to women) please take time to ponder……..(to men) enjoy the story……..

Young King Arthur was ambushed and imprisoned by the monarch of a neighboring kingdom. The monarch could have killed him but was moved by Arthur’s youth and ideals. So, the monarch offered him his freedom, as long as he could answer a very difficult question. Arthur would have a year to figure out the answer and, If after a year, he still had no answer, he would be put to death.

The question was: What do women really want?
Such a question would perplex even the most knowledgeable man, And to young Arthur, it seemed an impossible query. But, since it was better than death, He accepted the monarch’s proposition to have an answer by year’s end. He returned to his kingdom and began to poll everyone: The princess, the priests, the wise men, and even the court jester. He spoke with everyone, but no one could give him a satisfactory answer.

Many people advised him to consult the old witch, For only she would have the answer. But the price would be high as the witch was famous through out the kingdom for the exorbitant prices she charged. The last day of the year arrived and Arthur had no choice but to talk to the witch. She agreed to answer the question, but he would have to agree to her price first. The old witch wanted to marry Sir Lancelot, The most noble of the Knights of the Round Table, And Arthur’s closest friend! Young Arthur was horrified.

She was hunch-backed and hideous, had only one tooth, Smelled like sewage, made obscene noises, etc. He had never encountered such a repugnant creature in all his life. He refused to force his friend to marry her and endure such a terrible burden, But Lancelot, having learnt of the proposal, spoke with Arthur. He said nothing was too big of a sacrifice compared to Arthur’s life. And the reservation of the Round Table. Hence, a wedding was proclaimed and the witch answered. Arthur’s question thus: “What a woman really wants?”

She said, “*Is to be in charge of her own life.*”

Everyone in the kingdom instantly knew that the witch had uttered a great truth. And that Arthur’s life would be spared. And so it was. The neighboring monarch granted Arthur his freedom.
And Lancelot and the witch had a wonderful wedding. The honeymoon hour approached and, Lancelot, steeling himself for a horrific experience, entered the bedroom. But, what a sight awaited him.

The most beautiful woman he had ever seen lay before him on the bed. The astounded Lancelot asked what had happened. The beauty replied that since he had been so kind to her when she appeared as a witch, She would henceforth be her horrible and deformed self only half the time. And the beautiful maiden the other half.

“Which would you prefer? She asked him. “Beautiful during the day …. or at night?”
Lancelot pondered the predicament. During the day he could have a beautiful woman to show off to his friends, But at night, in the privacy of his castle, an old witch!
Or,
Would he prefer having a hideous witch during the day?
But by night a beautiful woman for him to enjoy wondrous, intimate moments with?

(If you are a *man* reading this…) *What would YOUR choice be?*
(If you are a *woman* reading this) *What would YOUR MAN’S choice be?*
What Lancelot chose, is given below:
BUT… make YOUR choice before you scroll down below… OKAY?

Noble Lancelot, knowing the answer the witch gave Arthur to his question, He said that he would allow *HER* to make the choice herself.

Upon hearing this, she announced that she would be beautiful all the time. Because, he had respected her enough to let her be in charge of her own life.

Now… what is the moral to this story?

The moral is…
1) There is a witch in every woman no matter how beautiful she is!
2) If you don’t let a woman have her own way, things are going to get ugly.

So, always remember:

IT’S EITHER “HER WAY” OR IT’S “NO WAY”

You have captured MY HEART…

April 9, 2008 - 11:56 — sandeep

My heart you’ve captured
My mind you’ve seduced
In my hands I hold closely
Your heart so ever tightly.

Your passion, so ever deep
Felt within your every kiss
Your heart, is my doorway
Felt within your sweet lips.

Your touch, is so desirable
So tender with every stroke
Your heart plays me a song
So beautiful with every note.

Your eyes, are my windows
I see the beauty deep within
With open arms I will await
For you to fall so deeply in

Finding Your Life Partner (CD Album)

You {{may}} stay together longer by:

Steps to possibly, potentially lower the divorce rate

— Being at least 25 years old.
If you marry before the age of 25, you may have a lack of life experience and communication skills, low incomes, and are getting married for the wrong reasons. Waiting until you are at least 25 years old gives your brain a chance to reach the point of intellectual maturity, also known as the “age of reason.”

Adults think with the prefrontal cortex. That’s the rational portion of the brain.
Teens think with the amygdala. That’s the instinctual and emotional portion of the brain.

—The couple’s income together is at least $50,000 a year.
Financial problems are the number one reason that couples divorce. When the two of you are stressed over coping with overdue bills, broken dreams, different spending and saving expectations, bill collectors, and fear that you could lose everything, arguments and misunderstandings increase, and your marriage ends up very low on your priority list.

— You are purchasing a home, considering purchasing a home, or saving towards the purchase of a home together.
Although owning a home can limit the free time a couple has and may create additional financial stress on a couple, the purchase of a home is a sign of a commitment to stay together and to build your future together.
Just think twice about remodeling a home.

— You have attended or are planning on attending a premarital class.
As more churches and communities require couples to have premarital education, new research is showing that these couples have less hurtful conflicts and a higher sense of marital satisfaction.
Learn more about premarital education.

Yes or No

Know Your Spouse
Answer yes or no:

* I prefer red wine to white wine.
* I squeeze toothpaste from the bottom of the tube.
* Valentine’s Day is important to me.
* I prefer cats to dogs for house pets.
* I do not want animals as house pets.
* I enjoy cooking.

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* I think it is OK to ask our parents for advice in financial matters.
* I prefer waterbeds to regular beds.
* Quality time to me is the two of us alone.
* I want children right away - at least within the first three years.
* It is all right for a couple to live together before marriage.
* I would like to have a child of my own sex even if it means trying again after we have reached the number of children that we have agreed on.

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* I want a one level house.
* I like to tell gross jokes.
* I would be open to adoption if we can’t conceive children on our own.
* Smoking bothers me.
* We will mutually decide on our children’s names.
* I prefer reading to watching TV.

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* It is OK to charge things like clothes, travel and other expenses on charge cards and carry the credit balance for a few months before paying it off.
* Hair left on soap in the shower bothers me.
* I enjoy improving my home with paintings, sculptures, etc.
* I like apples more than oranges.
* I like my home to be a place where friends gather informally.
* I obey the posted speed limit.

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* I would shower together with my spouse.
* I’m an impulsive spender.
* I believe we will save more than $200 from our income each month.
* It is important that we eat dinner together as a family.
* I would not mind vacationing by myself sometimes.
* I would enjoy visiting an art museum.

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* My fiance will say that I get along well with his/her parents.
* I see nothing wrong with the man being the primary cook in our house.
* I don’t like anyone to use my pen.
* I would rather be cremated than buried.
* We should make a will within six months of marriage.
* I would be willing to move to advance my spouse’s career.

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* I save recyclable materials.
* Both of us should work after we have children.
* The most important thing we can give our children is security.
* I like to watch TV in bed.
* I would prefer attending a party to reading.
* I enjoy dinner by candlelight.

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* Asking for a date is only a man’s prerogative.
* We will open our gifts on Christmas Eve.
* I am sometimes the life of the party.
* I feel comfortable discussing sex.
* I believe that clothes should be separated by fabric and/or color before washing.
* I believe prayer is an important part of my life.

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* I like beards on men.
* There is a correct way to hang toilet paper.
* I like to watch sports on TV.
* I like meat and potatoes better than casserole.
* I believe that clothes should be line-dried rather than machine dried.
* Good sex ends in mutual climax.

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* I enjoy country music.
* Religious training is important for children.
* We will open a joint bank account.
* I like ketchup on eggs.
* I believe regular church attendance is important.
* I believe that the toilet should be covered by the lid when not in use.

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* If there is something between us we should talk it out before having sex.
* I enjoy dinner by candlelight.
* I prefer to live in a condo or apartment rather than an individual house.
* I prefer comedy movies to horror movies.
* It will be OK to borrow money from our parents if we need to.
* I enjoy classical music.

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* Religion should play an important part in one’s life.
* When I get mad, I need time to cool down, then I can talk.
* Excessive drinking is always unacceptable.
* The word later can mean more than one day.
* I prefer chocolate much more than vegetables.
* I think it is OK to call mom once a day to chat and see how things are going.

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* I am more of a leader than a follower.
* Sex is the most important factor in a successful relationship.
* I find profanity in a social gathering objectionable.
* We will both be involved in cooking, house cleaning, laundry and yard work.
* I believe that prayers are answered.
* Infidelity is grounds for divorce.

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* I like to sleep in the nude.
* I believe we both should have life insurance and should buy it asap.
* It is important that we attend church together on a regular basis.
* I want a pet.
* We will have sex whenever I want to.
* Warmth and affection are important in a happy marriage.

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